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Have you ever heard someone say that women are really emotional? Well, its true. And actually, everyone is very emotional... whether we like to believe so or not. We make emotional decisions and then justify our behavior with logic. Let me share something with you that happens nearly every time Im out with my girlfriend... Whenever I go out with my girlfriend, guys always try to come up and hit on her. Itll go really badly for them and at some point my girlfriend will tell them that I can help them get better success with women because I teach men how to meet and date women. The next thing I know, the guys are trying to convince my girlfriend that she shouldnt be with me and that they are much nicer guys that she should be with. Then, they ask me for dating tips which they then try to use on my girlfriend. Its pretty funny. I get a good laugh from it every time. And, it only makes them look like idiots and make her want to be with me more. This is why... No matter how much you beg, whine, try to convince or logically justify or rationalize to a woman why should she be with you, it wont ever change her mind. She wont ever say, Hey, that really makes sense, I think Im compatible with you! This isnt a cloning lab. You arent in a debate. You cant say, I have good breeding, a good job and high apparent intellect... I think wed make good natural companions and expect anything but her to look at you funny before she walks away creeped out. Itll never work. Just like no matter how much a fatty tries to convince you that shes hot and sexy, if you dont have beer goggles on, shell still be nothing but a fatty. So, STOP TRYING TO CONVINCE WOMEN TO BE ATTRACTED TO YOU! So, how do you get a woman attracted to you if you cant do it by convincing her logically? You do it through emotions. She has to feel emotionally drawn towards you. You have to do all the things that Ive been talking about... be a challenge, tease her, be unpredictable, be interesting. Thats the only way youll make a woman feel attracted to you. If you walk up and a woman isnt instantly attracted to you, you need to press her emotional buttons. You need to be different than every other guy out there who tries to convince her to be attracted to them. Lets talk about a few of these things that create attraction so that you know what Im talking about... Be a Challenge and teasing Hot women are used to men coming up to them, giving them anything they want and then agreeing with everything that a woman says. Ive had girls crawling all over me just because I disagreed with what they said and had an argument with them. Hot girls are so bored with their life of guys doing anything for them that they want something new, some type of substance in their lives. Give it to them. Tease them about their clothes or their jewelry. Dont be worried about offending them. Be Unpredictable Women have the same things happen every single time they go out. Before a guy even walks up, she knows exactly what the guy is going to say. And you know what? I do too! Its probably going to be some compliment that shes heard 7 times already tonight followed by buying her a drink that hes going to force her to accept whether she wants one from him or not. After that hes either going to try to come on to her so hard that she basically has to call security over or hell be so unbelievably nice to her that shell have to come up with an excuse like, I have to go to the bathroom in order to get away from him without hurting his feelings. Do something different. Be interesting, fun, exciting, challenging, engaging, cool and indifferent. Dont let her know that youre interested in her by busting her balls and showing her that her looks dont impress you. Be Interesting Have you ever talked about your job, school, your car or your family? Stop it! Im getting bored just thinking about it! Have something interesting to talk about at any time. Have a good story that you can tell if your conversation dies down. Take her somewhere that always has interesting things going on where you can talk about relevant things in the area. I like to go to shopping malls with crazy shops in them and try on really silly trendy clothing that you only see people on runways in fashion shows wearing. Read some books on comedy and have fun wherever you go. Do anything you can to be different than most guys and have a good time. A woman would rather be with a poor, funny, interesting guy than a rich, handsome, predictable guy any day of the week. Win their Hearts, Not their Minds. |
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