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Think thats not possible? Au contraire. There are LOTS of great places to meet girls that dont involve shelling out $75 a night for drinks or $30 just to get into a club. I met my girlfriend of the last two years on a tour through Berlin, and I know another guy who met his wife in his economics class. In both cases, we guys didnt EXPECT anything to happen, and that was key. Remember, when youre not looking, thats when girls tend to show up! Expect the unexpected. Besides this fact, girls LOVE to have a romantic story about how they met you. Believe me, theyd rather say that they met you in a one-in-a-million chance encounter in Paris than in a club, dancing to raunchy music. You have to appeal to their romantic sensibilities. Just look at all the Hollywood movies, like Sleepless in Seattle, where girls meet guys on the radio, on the Empire State Building, in places you generally WOULDNT EXPECT TO MEET. Its a fundamental rule: Girls dont want the everyday, the routine, the expected. They want the unexpected, the unlikely, the unbelievable. They want something special they can tell all their friends, and thats why lookingor rather, NOT actively lookingoutside the regular venues is a winning idea. So what are some places I recommend for meeting the love of your life? Well, of course you cant HAVE the attitude that youre looking; just play it cool, and be patient. I recommend the following five places: Abroad. While travelling solo can work, its even better to go on a tour. Instant access to lots of girls travelling alone (or with a friend), and wanting to find a man of their own. Tours are GREAT ways for meeting chicks. And no matter where youre from, there are SO many benefits to going to a country carrying a foreign accent. At work. I ONLY recommend this if you are not in the same exact office together; you need some distance between you in case things go south. NEVER go for a girl who works 5 feet away from you; it will just create too many problems. My best friends messy relationship with an office mate proves this! But I dated a girl who worked in another department, and the break-up was fine; no messy office problems, no anxiety in the workplace. So if the attraction is there, right along with the distance, work offers a bounty of potential mates. Evening Classes. Doesnt get much easier than this. Social network? Check. Youre in the class, you get to know people, youre all it in together. Something in common with the girl? Duh. Double check! Easy conversationstalk about the class, your dreams, what youre doing here, etc. There are many other advantages, as well, but I think you can see how classes are a great way to find a girl. The best ones are those that only last 5-10 weeksthat way if you do go out with a classmate and things go sour, you wont have to see her for long afterwards! Through friends and family. In a Sex in America study, it was found that roughly two-thirds of the marrying couples met through mutual friends, coworkers, or family members. Never underestimate the value of using your friends, family, and even work acquaintances and classmates to find you a special someone. The best example I can think of is my good friend Rick, who met his wife through mutual friends. The two have been madly in love for 6 years and married for just over one year, and its still going great. Clearly there is value in using your human resources to find a girlfriend, or even wife. Random places. As you know from my blog on Expectations, often the best relationships are created when youre not looking. For example, on a night when I wasnt even on the prowl, I met a girl I would date for two years while waiting for the NYC subway! And I met another girlfriend on a bus in Australia. You may only meet her for five minutes, but big things can happen from small moments. Life is crazy, so embrace the unpredictability of it all! This should help all of you out there wanting to know how and where to meet more women. Good luck, and remember: the less you look, the more you find! Go to one of these places relaxed and not desperate, and you may not even have to look. Your dream girl might just come and find YOU. To find out more great places to meet girls, check out: http://www.000relationships.com Its YOUR turn! |
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