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1) Dont ever talk about him. Even if what youre saying is uncomplimentary, it will still have a negative effect. Your bringing him up hints that hes still on your mind. 2) Never say how good he was at anything. Doing this will create unnecessary anxiety and feelings of inadequacy with your guy. 3) Avoid telling him about intimate and special moments that you and your ex shared. Yes, its important that he knows about you. And, yes, he needs to learn to deal with his insecurities. But...why make him insecure in the first place? Is it really that important for him to know everything about you? 4) Never mention your sexual past...especially if it was good. If yourboyfriend asks you what it was like or how good it was, lie if you have to. Say it wasnt all that. 5) Avoid telling stories or reminiscing about events that involved your ex...even if the story has little to do with him. Examples are: I went to a great restaurant once... or Last year I went to this amusement park and had a great time... or I went to the beach last summer... Observing these 5 basic principles that will ensure that the quality of your relationship reaches its full potential. If you havent been following these general rules up to this point, you probably dont know what the true quality of your relationship could be. And, youve probably got a boyfriend with a lot of pent up anger, frustration, and insecurity. If thats the case, then you can turn over a new leaf today and get thing headed in the right direction by making a few changes in the way youve been acting. |
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