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There are many reasons that people have for not receiving. They believe that:
If you feel as that you have taken someone elses good from them, you cannot do this. The Universal laws, when you are in harmony with them, are set to your advantage. You can have whatever you desire, as long as your integrity is in order. In many societies, the belief that we shouldnt receive can start to reach extremes. There are people who cant even receive a compliment or even a thank you. In their attempt to be polite, modest or not appear stuck up they are actually really annoying the person who gave them the compliment. For example, a person may say:
That is a nice outfit you are wearing It can make the person giving the compliment, feel like they were stupid for saying anything to you. Alternatively, when you have helped someone and they say thank you, if you start saying, Oh, it was nothing, It undermines the value and worth of the help and some people feel it undermines them. I remember when I was in college, I had a hard time at accepting compliments. One year when I had completed a year-end project. I had fellow students coming up to me saying what I great job I did. I didnt want to appear better than anyone else or whatever it was I was feeling, so I would say, Oh, it was nothing. Or, I could have improved it more I had one friend get mad at me. She said, Why cant you take a compliment? When you say it was nothing, when it was better than ours, just what are you saying about what we did? I had never thought about it that way. I definitely didnt want to imply that theirs wasnt any good or insult them. It had more to do with what I believed I should do. I have been more careful just to say thank you. And you know what; It feels good to say that. So, if someone gives you a compliment, just say thank you If someone is thanking you for helping, just say, your welcome I also love to ready and study, quantum physics and neurosciences. Many studies, with the help of modern equipment, have shown how important it is for our brain to receive new or stimulating information. If we stop learning, the brain begins to stagnate and loses neuron connections. You remember the saying use it or lose it. Those who continue to learn, read or even do crossword puzzles, do much better in their later years. Consider a healthy lake, it has both an intake, receiving, (river or underground spring) as well as an output, giving. It flows with new life and thrives. A lake that has only has output or input, dies or stagnates. Think of the Dead Sea, it is dead because it doesnt have the flow. We are like the lakes. We must continue to have the flow in order to be successful, prosperous, healthy and happy. So ask yourself, When is that last time I received? |
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