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The confident eye gaze The Dale Head Drop Smile! Open body language Lean in to her Thumbs in belt Touch her Lets look at each in more detail: 1. The confident eye gaze This is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girls eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her look down and smile, you know youve made it and the time to approach is now. If she looks away from you but doesnt smile, give her a shot nonetheless; just the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest. 2. The Dale Head Drop If you really want to blow away a girl--and show some balls--meet a girls eyes, then knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to say, Hey, you know you want me. Come over here and get me! Ive found this to work incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit more--but it still works! 3. Smile! Its often overlooked, but nothing communicates happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in one like a nice big smile. Show the girl youre in control, show her youre confident, show her youre a fun guy to be around: brighten the place up with a big smile! And if your teeth need work, then get them fixed! Its good not just for your chances of meeting a girl, but also for your health and appearance! 4. Open Body Language So many guys walk or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together, and their faces anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into your world: Have your arms open and leaned back, your legs open and relaxed, your face warm and inviting. Youll not only attract yourself into a girls world, but also into the world of people at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a future girlfriend--or even wife! 5. Lean in to her As youre talking to a girl, especially while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning in closer. You dont want to be a creep, of course, but you can generally tell by a girls body language and talk how interested she is in you. If things are looking good, show her your control of the situation--and interest in her--by leaning in and generally getting closer to her. Leaning back does the opposite; it shows youre unconfident and not overly interested. Not what you want to communicate. 6. Thumbs in belt Ever put your thumbs in your belt, with your hands at your hips side? This is processed as a sign of being confident in ones sexuality and size. So if youre standing around at a bar or club and want to convey confidence, this will certainly be understood by girls! 7. Touch her! Yup, nothing quite connects like Reaching out and touching someone, so to speak. Great conversations and emotional/spiritual chemistry are great, but if you really want to take it to the next level, youll have to eventually show some balls and touch her. Im not talking about grabbing her and making out (unless it really is going that well and shes flirting out of control!), but doing little things: brushing your arm by her shoulders, lightly massaging her, leading her by the arm to another location in the place. By making a physical connection, youre giving her a sign loud and clear that youre confident in yourself and interested in her. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is just a starters guide to flirting, but it should serve you well as you venture out to bars, clubs, and parties in search of women. Remember to stay relaxed, and keep your body OPEN, not closed. Invite the honeys in; dont scare them away! Now youre on the path to success. If youd like to learn more about how to flirt, and understand when a woman is flirting back, try my How to Be Irresistible to Women system. Youll find out more about body language, what to say, and how to make great impressions--and thats just the start. Hey, youve heard what I have to say; now its your turn to get out there and practice! |
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