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Phone first, then face to face You shouldnt go from email flirting to dinner for two in just one step. Remember, you dont really know this person; its easy to misrepresent yourself online. Test the waters with a couple of phone calls and take the opportunity to get to know them. See if the vibes still there when youre chatting for real. Safety first on your first date For your own sake, set up your first date in a public place like a cafe or pub, where you know other people are going to be around. Theres no need to get paranoid, but if you have inadvertently picked up a bunny boiler, its good to have other people around if things get out of hand. Never meet at one of your homes. Remember: no pressure The purpose of a first date is to see if you want to go on a second date - thats all. Dont start fantasising about the wonderful life you two will be leading together. Just go see if you like them. Its a good idea to plan a short first date, like meeting for a coffee. If things go well you can always extend it. Make a good impression - but not too good Of course you want to impress your date, but youve also got to be yourself. Dont go overboard and get dressed to the nines or feel you have to impress them with a litany of all your accomplishments. Just act natural and go with the flow. The key is to have fun. |
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