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In addition, here are three strategies that you need to avoid if you want to stop divorce: 1. Giving reassurance, such as Ive changed. I wont have another affair. I wont lie to you anymore. This strategy never works. 2. Telling him/her repeatedly, I love you. This strategy also does not work. 3. Arguing and trying to talk him/her into feeling different. This strategy does not work as well. So what you can do to stop divorce? The biggest secret is that you need to work at your relationship. You must persistently work at having pleasant relationship. By no means should you take your relationship for granted. Many outside factors (job, finances, illness or inattention) have huge influence on relationships. You goal should be to deal with these factors. Here are three steps to stop divorce. 1. Husband and wife should come to an understanding that an outside factor is the most important cause. 2. Husband and wife should create a reasonable plan for solving the problem. A thorough plan must engage both of spouses. 3. Make the plan happen. Engage the whole family if needed. Here are some tips that will help you have a good relationship. - Communicate with your spouse. Talk about things that bother you, using the word we a lot. - Spend more time together doing things you each like to do. - Think twice before you say something. - Do not shout a hard criticism. |
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