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So, lets first look at some common characteristics of successful people before we look at how to use rejection to fuel your own success. People who are able to turn around rejection are: Resilient and bounce back quickly Persistent and dont give up Creative and think about how to turn around the situation Self-confident and dont take rejection personal Responsible and realize that the choice is always theirs Now, lets look at three simple steps to help you fuel your own success and turn around your response to rejection: 1. Decide not to take the situation personal. Immediately detach yourself from any feelings of failure or hurt. Look at the situation as a positive learning lesson and stay away from complaining to others who cant really help you. 2. Take full responsibility for your success. Know that: The person rejecting you is not responsible for your success. You control your own destiny. Turning the situation around is up to you. 3. Write out your action plan to turn around the situation. Write down what you could have done differently if you were in the situation again. Then determine what your ideal outcome is. Prepare an outline of all possible actions to achieve such. Commit to one action, take time to visualize how youll handle the situation and then immediately put into action. Go back to your list until you achieve success. Repetition and consistency is key to learning. Dont forget successful people dont give up! So often people cave in to fear and let rejection hold them back. However, Im certain that if youre reading this newsletter, youre not like that. Youre one of those who is risk-averse will go out there and show them! Copyright 2003-2006 MMC Lifestyle Coaching, LLC |
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