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It is true that most, if not all teens go through some hardships and rebellion while growing up, but how can you tell if this is just normal maturation or if your teen truly has a problem. There are several tell-tale signs that let you know if you are dealing with a troubled teen. 1. You have noticed that your child is becoming more and more secretive. 2. Your teen has sudden and uncalled for outbursts of anger. 3. Your teen regularly misses curfew and does not show up when he/she says they will. 4. They regularly lie about where they are. 5. They have changed their group of friends and does not want you to meet them. Usually the group of friends will lead to a distinct new appearance such as piercings or excessive black makeup and a negative change in attitude. 6. They steel money from you on a regular basis. 7. Their grades have dropped significantly or they lose interest in previous activities. If you notice some of these in your child, perhaps you should take a closer look at what is happening in their lives. If you find that they are experiencing some sort of trouble, you should try to help them as soon as you can without appearing too pushy or domineering. Since this is a childs time for searching for independence they will not want to feel controlled by you. To get advice on how to talk to your teen you can contact local help centers or look for advice on the internet. And remember, while these symptoms can sometimes be serious, this is how teens behave, and not all kids are troubled kids! |
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