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Hell still have and feel desire for his lady but his penis will simply not cooperate. Hell feel embarrassed, humiliated, ashamed, and guilty. And, his lady will feel just as bad because she now thinks that the man has lost his desire and attraction for her which really rattles her sense of self-worth. Because its going to happen if it hasnt already happened, lets explore this phenomenon As odd as it may seem, few men seem to recognize the transition that happens to them. For the first part of an average males life, an erection is an automatic, requires no effort, instantaneous, kind of thing. For the first part of the average males life, they think how dumb it is that a woman needs to hear the words first, that she needs to be turned on in her head first, before she is really ready for sex. And then, the transition happens. All of a sudden, things arent so instant and automatic. He thinks something is wrong with him which leads to further anxiety which leads to further erection problems. At the same time, the lady of the relationship - with all of her own self-doubt - interprets the malfunction as something wrong with her. What we have to consider is that the power of the mind is an amazing thing. National Geographic magazine has reported more than once on natives who woke up on a given morning in perfect health, decided that they had been cursed during the night and were dead before nightfall - all because of what they believed in their mind. Given this example of the minds power, is it any wonder that men have erection problems when they dont understand whats really happening within their own bodies? Well, the good news is that most men dont have a real problem. Nature has just turned the tables on him. In other words, when the transition happens, the average male needs to hear sexual words first. He needs to get turned on in his head first. He needs foreplay. He needs his wife to talk sexy talk to him. He needs his wife to assure him of her love and care for him. He needs his wife to assure him of his value and importance. He needs all the things that she needed during the first part of HER life - and that he thought was so dumb. He needs all those things that felt like nothing but an obstacle to him getting what he wanted. The bad news is that if he doesnt recognize and understand this transition, then he will start using the power of his mind in a negative and destructive way such that he will end up having genuine and real erection problems. But, by understanding whats really going on and by asking the wife to slow things down a bit, to talk sexy talk, to affirm him, to open up and expose all of her secret sexual thoughts, a man and a woman can have sex that is far more incredible than anything theyve experienced prior to the transition. |
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