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This quality is one that reflects your feeling that youre a man worth knowing and you deserve womens attention. But do you really believe that women pay attention to what you think you deserve? Being nice is not enough. Okay, fine, youre nice, but you also need to be interesting. Unfortunately, nice guy equates to wimp/dweeb in too many peoples minds. Believe me: you dont have to be a jerk to attract women! As a matter of fact, women did not like jerks or aggressive men. They are attracted by challenging, interesting guys. That is all. You can be interesting, challenging and still a nice man. Be yourself but keep in mind these significant things that can make the difference between a regular nice guy and a successful one. 1. Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the quickest and easiest way Ive ever heard to let a woman know that YOU are the guy she should be pursuing is to let women know you are successful with women. Be a nice guy, but one that is desirable. :) 2. The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a woman and spark her attraction for you is giving her a COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be suicidal if done wrong... but just find something at her what you really think is special, different about her. You give attention, and you will get attention in return! 3. Not being aggressive doesnt mean that you have to wait for madam perfection to drop into your lap (which you as a nice guy deserve by definition, of course). You have to take some initiative. BE SELF-CONFIDENT (but not really cocky) and show some honest interest in something about a woman. 4. The best selling genre of books in the world is romance novels... because women LOVE romance. So dont talk about sport for God seek! If you are not the type of man that reads poetry or is able to talk about moon or about the smell of burned tree leafs, dont do it. Youll look unnatural. But taking your date in a romantic place, offering her a nice flower, enjoying some good music or even touching her hand in a delicate way is very romantic. 5. And dont talk only about you. You want her to listen to you? Then first listen carefully to her when she needs to be heard. The most effective way to be interesting is asking questions and� listens. Only try and youll see. :) Keep in mind that often (not always, but very often) when a woman tells you about a problem shes having, shes not looking to you for the solution. What? That doesnt make sense? What shes often looking for is comfort and reassurance and knowing that YOURE THERE. 6. One of the most important things in dating is to approach women that are interested in dating and women that seem to be interested in you. Dont try to sell candies to someone that is looking for peanuts and dont waste your time with women that are still affected by their ex long term relationships. You dont want to be just a shoulder to cry? You only live once so live your life well! |
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